Friday, August 25, 2006

CRYING IN THE RAIN

Everly Brothers

I’ll never let you see
The way my broken heart it hurtin’ you
I’ve got my pride
And I know how to hide
All my sorrow and pain
I’ll do my crying in the rain


If I wait for the cloudy skies
You won’t know the rain from the tears in my eyes
You’ll never know
That I still love you so
Though the heartaches remain
I’ll do my crying in the rain


Raindrops fallin’ from heaven
Could never wash away my mistery
But since we’re not together
I look for stormy weather
To hide the tears I hope you’ll never see


Someday when my crying’s done
I’m gonna wear a smile and walk in the sun
I may be a fool
But till darling
You’ll never see my complain
I’ll do my crying in the rain

Tentang Perkawinan

Sajak ttg perkawinan oleh Prof. Dr. Priguna Sidharta :

Perkawinan
Berarti suatu tantangan yang harus dihadapi,
Suatu perjuangan yang harus dimenangkan
Suatu kesusahan yg harus diatasi
Suatu rahasia yg harus digali
Suatu tragedi yg harus dialami
Suatu kegembiraan yg harus disebarkan
Suatu cinta yg harus dinikmati
Suatu tugas yg harus dilaksanakan
Suatu romantika yg hrs dirangkul
Suatu risiko yg harus diambil
Suatu lagu yg harus dinyanyikan
Suatu anugerah yg harus dipergunakan
Suatu permainan yg menyenangkan
Suatu impian yg harus diwujudkan
Suatu perjalanan yg hrs diselesaikan
Suatu janji yg harus ditepati
Suatu keindahan yg harus dikagumi
Suatu pertanyaan yg harusdijawab
Suatu kesempatan yg harus dipakai
Suatu persoalan yg harus dipecahkan
Suatu kesulitan yg harus dikalahkan
Rahmat yg harus dipelihara dan dicintai

Sumber : buku Bimbingan Seks Suami isteri “pandangan islam dan medis”
Pnerbit : ROSDA

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How Poor We Are... :(

One day, the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the express purpose of showing him how poor people live.

They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?"

"It was great, Dad."

"Did you see how poor people live?" the father asked.

"Oh yeah," said the son.

"So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?" asked the father.

The son answered:

"I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them."

The boy's father was speechless.

Then his son added, "Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are."

Isn't perspective a wonderful thing?

Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for everything we have, instead of worrying about what we don't have.

Appreciate every single thing you have!
Sahabat adalah…
Seseorang yang bisa diam bersama kita dalam masa keputusasaan,atau kebingungan tanpa menghakimi,tidak menawarkan pemecahan masalah,ketika kita belum siap untuk memecahkannya,dan tidak memotong pembicaraan saat kita ingin bicara.

Sahabat adalah…
Tempat dimana kita bisa mengatakan dengan bahasa apapun,dan pilihan kata manapun,mengeluarkan semua isi hati, beban hidup,melepaskan tangis yang kita tahan,malu yang kita sembunyikan,dan melampiaskan semua hal yang kita pendam.

Sahabat adalah…
Seseorang yang bisa menoleransi ketidaktahuan dan ketidaksembuhan,tidak menyuruh kita berhenti menangis saat kita sedang menangisdan ada bersama kita dalam menghadapi kenyataan atau ketidakmampuan,tanpa melihat siapa kita, siapa teman kita dan apa jabatan kita.

a friend will strengthen you with her prayers,bless you with her love, encourage you with her heart

don’t walk in front of me, I may not follow…
don’t walk behind me, I may not lead…
Just walk beside me, and be my friend…